![]() ![]() I'll try my luck elsewhere." Or you said it to him. Need more convincing? How about this: The person you loved took a good long look at the awesomeness that is you, evaluated your relationship together, and said, "No, thanks. Because unless there are two people putting on the coveralls and getting down in the trenches with some duct tape and superglue and a fierce determination, it isn't going to happen. Generally, if one person thinks that the breakup is the right move, they're probably right even if it feels so wrong. True, but can your relationship be fixed? Anything is possible, but we'd say probably not. So even though you are clearly wounded, getting out of this broken relationship is the best thing possible, even if you didn't know it was broken until now. Being the first one to recognize that a relationship isn't a match doesn't win you any great prize-just the guilt of having to hurt someone's feelings. The bright, clean, simple, easy, runs-so-smoothly-I-don't-even-have-to-think-about-it kind of works. ![]() It's time to get rid of all the broken stuff that you've been lugging around for days, months, and maybe even years, and make the bold decision to start looking for stuff that works. And starting today, you're not the kind of woman who settles for broken or hangs on to damaged goods, be it a radio, a pair of shoes, or a relationship. If you've reached this point, where one or both of you feel that walking away is the best course of action, the cracks are there. But that sadness, in turn, doesn't make it less broken. That doesn't make the breakup any easier to handle or change the overwhelming nature of the sadness that you feel. Even if you feel baffled by his decision to end it, it boils down to the same thing every time: Your relationship, despite its promise, has ceased to be right for one or both of you. It's over for a reason, and even if you're in denial about it, deep down inside you probably know what that reason is. In these first few hours or days or weeks of your breakup, there's one all-important truth that you need to recognize: Some things can't and shouldn't be fixed, especially that loser who dumped you or forced you to dump him. And now here you are holding this stupid "Breakup Book" because, quite honestly, you'd do anything not to feel like this and maybe this book will shed some light on what you're going through. You guys were supposed to be together forever. You only broke it off with him before he broke it off with you. It's rocking the very core of your being. AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA AAAAAHHHHHHH! F*#k, it hurts. ![]()
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